IF

One of my favorite poems of all times is Rudyard Kipling's "If".  Our son learned it and memorized it for school (LOVE homeschooling!) and it is now one of his favorites also.

Yesterday, while checking my emails, I received my weekly newsletter from Thomas Jefferson Education Online, and it's "quote of the day" was "If" - but revised for girls.  Loved it!  So I'm including both renditions below for your enjoyment.

First the original Boy version, followed the updated Girl version.

"If" for Boys 

 "Outward Bound" by Norman Rockwell

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

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"If" for Girls

 "Girl at the Mirror" by Norman Rockwell

If you can hear the whispering about you
And never yield to deal in whispers, too;
If you can bravely smile when loved ones doubt you,
And never doubt, in turn, what loved ones do;
 If you can keep a sweet and gentle spirit
In spite of fame or fortune, rank or place,
And though you win your goal or only near it
Can win with poise or lose with equal grace;
 If you can meet with unbelief, believing,
And hallow in your heart a simple creed,
If you can meet deception, undeceiving,
And learn to look to God for all you need;
 If you can be what girls should be to mothers--
Chums in joy and comrades in distress;
And be unto others as you'd have the others
Be unto you--no more and no less;
 If you can keep within your heart the power
To say that firm, unconquerable "no";
If you can brave a present shadowed hour
Rather than yield, to build a future slow;
 If you can love, yet not let loving master,
But keep yourself within your own self's clasp,
And not let dreaming lead you to disaster
Nor pity's fascination loose your grasp;
 If you can lock your heart on confidences
Nor ever needlessly in your turn confide;
If you can put behind you all pretenses
Of mock humility or foolish pride;
If you can keep the simple homely virtue
Of walking right with God--then have no fear
That anything in all the world can hurt you;
AND--which is more-- You'll be a Woman, dear.

-Gale Baker Stanton