Monday, January 21, 2013

THE FENCE


THE FENCE

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.
His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper,
he must hammer a nail into the fence.  The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger,
the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down.
He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.
He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy
now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all
the nails were gone.

The father tool his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
He said "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.
The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger,
they leave a scar just like this one."  You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.
It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there.
Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted
to say something you will regret later.

- Author Unknown

1 comment:

Lyoeono said...

That story reminds me of one I heard from your brother. That when he would come home after a bit of partying your Dad would make him go out and dig fence posts all day.

Thanks for sharing. I just saw your linked in note and read your blog today. I am at work so I guess I am loafing at the office today.

Hugs to you,

Linde

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